Re: The Mike O'Meara Show
Date: March 19, 2014 08:20PM
David M Wrote:
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> TMOS Stats Wrote:
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> > A message to David M and anyone else coming
> here
> > from the Facebook TMOS Fan Club:
> >
> > Not everyone here is awful. But some of them
> are.
> > I don't come here to talk nasty about Mike's
> kids.
> > I don't like the posts here that cross the line
> > into inappropriate. Many of the people here are
> > current or former fans of the show who believe
> > that Mike (and Robb) have destroyed their own
> > show. They have hurt the show through both
> > inaction and poor decisions. Many of us want
> the
> > show to be great. Many of us think it could be
> > great. That's part of why it is so upsetting to
> > see what it has become. I stopped listening, but
> I
> > still come here to discuss/follow what's
> > happening.
> >
> > Let me ask some questions:
> >
> > 1. Why is the fan club so afraid of criticism?
> >
> > 2. Do you really think the show is as good as
> it
> > could be?
> >
> > 3. The show has not grown since its inception.
> > There is PROOF of this. If you have less
> listeners
> > than when you started, isn't that a failure?
> > Shouldn't you change the formula?
> >
> > 4. The TMOS Bonus shows cost $75.00 per year
> for
> > up to 65 hours of content. This comes to $1.15
> per
> > hour. Don's show costs $85.00 per year for up
> to
> > 480 hours of content. (Don has stated he will
> take
> > 4 weeks vacation.) This comes to $0.18 per
> hour.
> > Why is it so hard for the TMOS Fan Club to
> believe
> > that people would pay for this? Many of you
> > already pay almost that much and get much less
> for
> > your money. It's only $10 more for almost 8
> times
> > the content!
>
> Hey, TMOS Stats. I've actually been a lurker here
> since the thread kicked off, but I just never made
> an account until I wound up being posted by proxy
> anyway with the Fan Club screenshots. Figured I
> might as well be live. I'm with you, start to
> finish, on your whole first paragraph.
>
> 1. It stems from a place of insecurity and a need
> to belong. Because of the accessibility and
> presence of Mike, Robb, and Oscar, and the value
> many people place on their recognition and
> affirmation, the cast's pleasure forms a baseline
> culture. Offending the cast can easily result in a
> literal form of excommunication, so it's important
> not only to be inoffensive oneself but also to be
> seen policing those who do or might offend. There
> is a very low threshold with the cast above which
> any criticism, even constructive, is deemed
> offensive, so there is great pressure toward
> "positivity" at the expense of objectivity, among
> certain fans.
>
> We're all like that to some extent. As an extreme,
> even learning to control a system from within
> means being forced to adapt to its "tools." I've
> met the cast on a few occasions and I liked
> hanging out with them, I generally enjoy the show,
> and I do value even the the casual "chumminess" we
> have online. Because I understand their value
> system and it is "their" arena, I take care to
> respect it in the Fan Club. Except in quite rare
> circumstances, I don't post criticism there,
> because it would not be well received. On the
> other hand, I won't make positive statements I
> don't believe in, either, and when other people do
> make constructive criticism, I stand up for them
> against the automatons who aren't able to control
> their fear of rejection. By doing that, I help to
> elevate that baseline of accessible discourse.
>
> As an example, I wouldn't just volunteer the
> majority of this post in the Fan Club but I have
> said very similar things candidly. One Fan Club
> member asked point blank why the TMOS FFU thread
> even existed, and I told her. No one blocked or
> unfriended me. We all know the guys read this
> forum too, but that doesn't change A) what I
> perceive the truth to be, B) that this is a
> separate venue with a different culture, and it is
> not theirs, and C) I try not to say anything I'd
> be ashamed of, even if I'm not always successful.
>
> 2. Definitely not. I completely agree with most of
> the constructive criticism I've seen here for
> improving it.
>
> 3. I think we had a very stark example of that
> from one of your spiritual brethren a couple
> months ago who made the chart showing downloads
> over time, and comparing it to particular show
> elements. I would say it indicates a failing, yes,
> but it will only be ultimate failure if it isn't
> learned from and corrected. Maybe that point will
> be defined by the dissolution of the podcast,
> which I hope doesn't happen.
>
> 4. I really can't help you there. I'm the kind of
> guy who calculates $/oz. of beer at the bar and
> buys whichever size is most efficient. I think
> it's a phenomenal value compared to what I've
> already been willing to pay for other shows. Even
> if you imagine that Don's providing the same five
> hours of free content TMOS is, your premium
> subscription nets you five hours of bonus content
> per week, opposed to one. However, here's my
> actual answer: I think a lot of people are
> offended or have a wounded sense of entitlement
> because they aren't getting something they took
> for granted, and even $0.18/hour is infinitely
> more than the zero they expected.
We're pretty much on the same page. Thanks for taking the time to repsond. I would like to invite anyone else from the Fan Club to have a respectful, polite conversation about the positives and negatives of the show.